Clive's "Condition"
Ok, so let me start this by making one thing perfectly clear: Clive is just fine. He's the same full-on, non-stop toddler he's been. He just has a "condition".
But let me back up a week or three...
The first weekend of my prac saw Clive with a bit of a cold. This is not unusual given he's goes to child care (full time when I was in prac) as well as having two siblings at home who attend school. He gets every sniffle Sparky and Her Majesty bring home, as well as contributing to the family sickness pool himself. But by the time I got home from work that Saturday night, it was pretty obvious he was not well. By "not well" I mean really not well. Trip to the hospital not well.
Clive and I spent the next 17 hours in hospital Emergency Wards - a couple of hours in the local private hospital getting him improved enough to get an ambulance (minus the sirens) to the Royal Children's Hospital. He was still not 100% when we were discharged Sunday afternoon, but he was so exhausted, and so not sleeping, that he was not doing himself any favours and I promised I would bring him back if he worsened at home. Thankfully I haven't had to do that.
So I was hopeful this incident was a one-off. A very severe complication from the virus he obviously had. However a follow-up visit to our GP a week and a half later put paid to that notion. Various test results had come back that meant it was pretty likely Clive had been having problems for a while, and we had all totally missed it. I felt pretty awful about that - hello, nurse here! - but the GP reassured me that given Clive's age he's a pretty poor historian and he'd obviously been coping prior to that weekend. Since that appointment he's had several other episodes that have pretty well convinced The Hermit and I that Clive does indeed have a "condition".
Why don't I just get on with it and tell you what it is then? Because The Hermit has asked me not to. He has asked me not to violate Clive's privacy and put it out there for everyone and their cousin to see on the interwebs, and since he's never asked me to leave anything out on this blog - even stuff that makes him look like a wanker - I agreed. If you're a long time reader and desperately want to know, I'll tell you. Just email me at aussiemooselet AT gmail DOT com (just substitute the appropriate symbols) or Facebook me and I'll give you the scoop. We're not embarrassed or ashamed or think that our son is less than perfect - that's ridiculous and as far as I'm concerned he's still perfect. He just has a chronic condition that we'll have to learn to manage - and he may even outgrow it.
As I said at the start, he's fine. It hasn't slowed him down one jot, and he's a champ at taking his medication when necessary. But it was a hell of a way to start my final prac.





10 Witty Remarks:
It boggles my mind that the Hermit doesn't want you to post about Clive's condition. Men are often unfathomable. It's good to hear that Clive is his usual terrible two self i kids have amazing recuperative powers.
We will be so happy when the movers finish up here. We are both scrambling to get the trailer ready. Can't wait to head out for the new adventure. Talk to you Wednesday.
I'm sorry Clive has been sick, poor cutie. Hopefully he'll be feeling better soon.
As for the privacy issues, I understand completely. Pete and I had a conversation about this last year and agreed that certain things would not be discussed openly on my blog since so many people in our town read it.
MM - The Hermit is fine with me posting it, he just doesn't want me to name it outright. I can see where he's coming from and respecting Clive's privacy.
Jen - He's doing very well. He's just woken up and is chatting away. I self-censor a couple of things, but this is the first one The Hermit has asked me outright to do.
Ahhh Mooselet, Clive's condition is the least of his problems. He's going to be a Bronco fan.... that's far more serious! :-P I knew I should have got in earlier... I should have been working on him when he couldn't escape the womb! DAMMIT! Another missed opportunity at Wests Tigers recruitment. lol
Glad he's back up and running (the household). Definitely catch up soon chickadee and I'll take some pics you can post.
hey there...also expat...from seattle just found your blog via the expat. website. been in aus. for 11 years. living in maleny (just outside of) on a rural 50 acre property.
cheers,
renee
my website with direct link to my blog:
reneeblackwelldesign.com
Miss WTF - you had a good chance with Her Majesty but we've turned her from the dark side. Go the Broncos!!! Will let you know when the boys have a home game on a Sunday - not til July with the break coming up. Maybe an afternoon out as Aspley next weekend?
Renee - thanks for dropping by. Have bookmarked your blog. I like it up in Maleny, although I haven't been in ages. Hope to see you around here again.
To me, it's not important what he has... just that he's doing okay now! Feel better, Clive!
Aw... poor little guy. Please give him a giant hug from me.
I hope the little guy gets better soon.
Poor fella.
I wanted to offer kudos to your husband for trying to protect your boy's privacy. Sometimes I wonder if I put too much out there, not so much about myself but about my kid. Food for thought.
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